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A thinking mom # 6

Having kids are wonderful right I want to ask you guys a
Question on how parents of boys and parents of girls feel in the rasing department.
I am a mother of two boys now and I love it but mind you my boys are still young but my oldest is 7 and he  gives me a run for my money. Lol. But the things he does makes me feel like teenage years are not gonna be a breeze. But is any teenage life a breeze. Lol
I say that to say this my mom always tries to tell me rasing boys and rasing girls are the same and she had two girls. I tell her I think not rasing boys are different because you have to raise the to be strong men and girls yes you have to raise them to be strong women but girls don't make a lot of bad decisions naturally. Lol
I feel little boys are naturally bad decision makers only because boys act before thinking most of the time.
Like my 7 year old he is the best.  Very very smart fun and cool as he puts it. Lol. But he will go to school and I will tell him every morning when is play time and talk time he says recess because class time is learning time. Once he see's his friends it goes out the window his teacher let's me no during conference
That she had to remind him no talking during class but she doesn't have to do it a lot and when she does he straightens up right away and gets back serious. Now my boy knows that's a no no but he to excited and having fun. Most girls are quit and shy boys are loud and rowdy.
Its just how can you say rasing girls and boys are the same when they have two different emotion levels testosterone for boys more all over the place and excitable and girls estrogen calm and manageable.
What are your thoughts?

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