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When is it mom/wife time.

When is it mom's time? Or should I say wifes time? There is no time for moms or wives to have time to there self. Every day I wake up and get dress, I get my boys dress. And I get my day started. I take my oldest to school. I take the little one with me, we usually take care of all our errands. Get stuff together for the house, relax a little bit and then it's time to pick up my oldest. Once my oldest gets home. He does his homework. He gets to relax, watch some TV before dinner and then go to bed. Now when my son is watching TV. I let him watch what he wants to watch. If I tell him to turn the TV off. And get ready for bed or. Lets say its a Sunday. I tell him to get his clothes ready for the week he will literally. Try to get an attitude, saying he never gets to watch his t.v shows, he never gets to do whatever he wants to do. He never gets to play video games, anything of that nature when its time for him to do something. Mind you when my son watches tv hes doing everything except watching tv because he has watch the show so much he knows whats coming. Now my fiance. He will ask me to make him something for lunch. Ask me to do this for him and can I wash the clothes which I already do but he can't do it because , he's tired. And has been working all day. Every day. now, I usually let it go and go about my day, not worried about anything, but some days when my son gets in his attitudes about he doesn't get to watch TV or play video games, or my fiancĂ© is like he's tired he's been working all day. I'm like really, when do I get to watch my TV shows? When do I get to play video games?. If I want to, when do I get to go to the bathroom in peace. Lol, when do I get to eat when I want to eat? But when do I get to sleep when I want to sleep? So, as the title says, when is it moms\wife time? When do moms\wifes get to relax? Or go out to eat to their favorite food  place and eat in peace. I'm curious right now,I have a 7 year old and a 7 month old, my time is out the window. I can't wait to get my time back. But mind you, I am a mother. And I am a fiance. I take my role serious. I know I'm saying oh, I want my time back. What am I doing? But in reality? I love not having my time. Because I know when my boys get older, I'm gonna have all the time in the world and all I'm gonna wanna do is bother them just like they bothered me and I cant wait lol. The moment when I get my time back, it's going to be bitter sweet. Its gonna be boring. Its gonna be quiet, it's gonna be...  short lived. Because I cant sit still. I'm constantly moving regardless if I have kids or not. I'm always gonna keep moving forward, learning new things and not sitting around doing nothing. I'm going to be Keeping my life on a moving source of energy. If that's even a saying. And with that said right now as I am writing this blog. my youngest is coming,  what does he want let me guess all my attention. And my time and guess what he just got it all. So I'm going to end this blog posts with, do you want your time? Or do you like not having any time?



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