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I see my self in you

As a parent we want are kids to be better then us. Make better choices in life but at the same time we see are self in them.


Everyday I see my self in my sons. more in the oldest then the youngest because the little one is just trying to figure it out. But my oldest he thinks he's got it all down to the T..why you ask because he's my son

 He has my attitude and my know it all ways along with his father attitude and blow it off deminer to. So it's double the trouble. 

When my son is in one of his bad moods or hasn't ain't his lunch oh man just be prepared to know he's really a good kid and don't think he means everything he says. Lol my son can put on a tantrum and I'm not talking about your usual kid tantrum were it's yelling and whinning. its full blown woke up on the wrong side of bed he will try to give you the cold shoulder tell you your the worst when nothing hasn't happen in the day to be so angry. lol when he gets moody and cranky I usually let him go through his spell or give him a snack if it's about that time and see how he feels after the snack if he's still going through it means he didn't get enough sleep.

My sister always tells me my son is just like me but I always just saw his dad in him but the more he gets older I'm starting to see me in him when he's frustrated or annoyed I actually feel like I'm looking in the mirror. Now that my son us going to be 8 in September I'm starting to talk to him about how he thinks others feel when he's tired or frustrated and how he has to be a better him before others start to better there self.

If I would of known  when I was yonger that my attitude and my know it all ways annoyed people maybe I would of toned it down. lol maybe I catch my self. Now when I'm going through a day to day basis and feel my self not allowing some one to finish there sentence or when I feel my attitude starting to get snappy I try to walk away if I can because I want my sons to do more then me and better then me with my attitude. With stranger they do good well sometimes my little one feels a little different

When people talk to him he some times makes rude face. He's still learnin and figuring out his facial expression. Lol.
But know one as a parent wants there kid to make the same mistakes as they did so we have to change a little so are kids can do better I know I try hard everyday and I correct him if I see him doing something that is wrong obviously but something's are just in your jeans.lol

Parents look at your kids and tell !e you don't see your self in them and it pushes you to be a better you.
~Now that's life.TheFLandF~


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